When times are tough, how do you keep the strength to move forward? Though difficult, there are ways to stay positive and motivated when times are tough. You might be dealing with issues of employment, benefits and impact on your personal finances. And if your creditors are constantly calling and your debt increases regularly, you may feel stuck. However, there are simple ways to stay positive when times are tough.
Difficult times are best addressed by those who maintain a positive attitude. The important thing is to learn to understand the cyclical nature of our emotions. Here are some of the best tips and tricks for staying motivated when times are tough.
Accept the full reality of your situation
You cannot find peace by avoiding life. Life turns with unexpected changes every minute. Instead of avoiding them, try accepting every change as an experience, as a challenge to your growth. Either it will bring you what you want, or you get to learn something out of it. Finding peace and happiness in life does not mean being in a place without challenges, and without working hard. It actually means being in the middle of chaos and staying calm in your heart and mind.
Frankly, life is too short to spend your time at war with yourself. The biggest disappointments in your life are often the result of unrealistic expectations. Releasing unnecessary thoughts is your first step towards happiness. Having a mindset of peace and acceptance will you in dealing with almost anything and grow beyond anything you can imagine.
Remember that everything is temporary
Every time it rains, you know that it will rain more. Each time you get hurt you know you’ll heal. After darkness, there is always light. You are never surprised to find the morning light because you never asked yourself if the night could last forever. And it will not happen. Nothing lasts forever.
So, if things are going well at the moment, enjoy it. This will not last forever. If things go wrong, do not worry because it will not last forever either. Quite simply, if life is not easy now, it does not mean that you cannot laugh. If something bothers you, it does not mean that you cannot smile. Every new second gives you another chance. You just have to take it and make the best use of it.
Be grateful for what you have
Being grateful is one of the best ways to stay positive when times are tough. Your life may not go according to the plan, and you might have too many problems and not enough solutions. But somewhere there is a person dealing with numerous issues, usually far more difficult than yours. Keep this in mind, and you might be able to cheer up.
Take the focus outside yourself
If you sit around by focusing on your problems, you will feel miserable. However, if you take the focus off yourself, you will feel not only better, it’ll be easier to appreciate what you have. For example, maybe you can volunteer at a local kitchen, hospital or other organization and help people in your community.
Making small corrections
When everything is broken, it is easy to find lots of little things you can correct. When nothing seems to go right, even the most positive fundamental effort can make a significant difference. The moments of great adversities are also moments of great opportunities. When problems happen to you in every way, they also come with great value waiting to be created. When all goes well, it is easy to be lulled into complacency routine. It’s easy to forget how you can be incredibly capable and resourceful. So, continue making small corrections every day. These are minor changes that will get you where you are planning to arrive.
So remember every day: small steps, small jumps and small corrections (very small, iterative changes) will lead you where you want to be, against all odds.
Believe it or not, but exercise is a way to boost morale. It might be the last thing you want to do, but with a regular exercise routine, you will increase your production of endorphins, hormones of well-being. So you will be able to handle your stress and anxiety, and you will be able to remain positive. Get into a gym, ride your bike, play sports or participate in another favorite activity to keep yourself busy and motivated.
Avoid negative thinking
The mind is powerful. And if you think negatively, the voice of negativity will make you feel even worse. However, if you replace negative thoughts with the positive ones, it will be easier to keep a smile on your face and get through your problems with ease.
Also, limit the contact with negative people. Your environment plays a huge role in how you feel and think. If your friends are always complaining, or they do not encourage you, this may deepen your misery. And when you are surrounded by negativity, you may not gather the power to change your situation.
Try seeking help
Do not handle problems alone. If you do not see a way out of your situation, find a support system–your spouse, brother, relative or friend. Let that person know how you feel and ask for help. Meet with this person, and maybe he or she can take your mind off your problems.
It’s hard to stay positive when your life is not going as planned. However, you should not let your problems to control how you feel every day. It’s hard, but you can keep a smile on your face.
I can tell you from my own experience that life is a crazy but amazing race. So remember that everyone is suffering in life at some point or other. Everyone feels lost sometimes. The key is to stay motivated and use your experiences to grow, centimeter by centimeter. When you apply what you learn, to your future choices and actions, you advance in life. You become stronger and wiser. It’s not easy but it’s worth it in the end.